We've been home a couple of days now. Re-entry is hard. 30 hours worth of jet lag and a 13.5 hour time difference is bad by itself. Add in only 2-3 hours of sleep between feedings plus the *always* dark Alaska winter and you forget which direction is up! Right now it is 4:45 am in Alaska, but in Hyderabad its 7:15 pm. So you tell me .... bad time to write a blog post?
So far we've done pretty well. Emily's feeding, diaper changing, and sleeping have been set up. Amber's struggling with a sore throat and me with a cough, but Emily seems pretty good except for the occasional gas fit. The luggage had a night outside below zero (F) to discourage any stowaways and we've run most of the laundry from it. Set the thermostat higher for Emily ... Wednesday at 85 F but as it was very cold out the best the house could do was 78. Today (Saturday) it is snowing and warmer so I turned it down as the boiler is meeting its goal (The gas bill is going to be epic!). A few trips to the big box stores have us stocked with more newborn-size diapers, wipes, bottles, humidifier, bottle sterilizer, and a new baby monitor. The first pediatrician appointment was moved up to this Monday. Got Emily added to the health insurance by taking the birth certificate into the HR office and still need to submit a claim for the $4K bill from Lotus Children's Hospital. Grandma Marie, Grandpa Bill and cousin Alice got to meet Emily and Grandma Pat will arrive on Pearl Harbor day from Minnesota to help out for a few weeks.
Real life is threatening to intervene. Amber has a craft show at UAA tomorrow to setup for and Brian has a work deadline to address. Already we've used 5 of the 7 paid time off weeks, so we'll have to figure out the back to work schedule and child care PDQ.
The plane trip home actually went pretty well. All the flights were on time and despite a screw-up we managed to get bulkhead seats with bassinettes/cots on both long-haul British Air flights. Emily did great and the air pressure didn't bother her too much. She developed a bad habit of peeing during diaper changes in the airplane restrooms and at one point Brian had to send a flight attendant forward to Amber for a new diaper. Fortunately that didn't happen the time we changed her on the airline seat itself!!
We're not the best packers but the luggage wasn't too overweight. The glass beads I bought for Amber in Delhi were 10 pounds by themselves! The worst problem we had was in London. I had all the hand luggage - a backpack and two shoulder bags, plus a roller bag - while Amber carried Emily. After a passport check, Amber passed the roller bag back to me before getting on the escalator. I followed, but the roller bag - which leans away from you when standing upright - was stopped between two escalator blades. So I tried to push it away with my foot, only the escalator was gaining altitude at that point and I lost my balance. The shoulder bags shifted and further destabilized me so that I crashed into the guy below me, who crashed into the guy below him! Amber watched in horror as this played out in slow motion. Fortunately there were only a few bruises.
Its hard to believe we were just in India! We were talking to another couple today who are planning to go soon to pick up their baby and all the details of our month there just came rushing back! As life moves on here in Alaska, I don't want to forget to say thank you! There are so many people to thank for making this miracle possible, both here at home and there in Hyderabad. And also the other parents we met there, whose help and support is so wonderful! But I will save more of that for another post.
PS - For those of you who want photos ... I sympathize! Been there. PLEASE be patient. Emily is as cute as ever. But her parents? Not so much right now.
So, so happy to hear that you're home - and that you got there relatively unscathed. And yep, your heating bill is going to be HUGE. I nearly had a heart attack with our winter bill, and we live in a relatively warm place with no snow. But it will all be worth it. Promise!!
ReplyDeleteps - my word verification was PHOLO. Is that the type of photo you'd take when you're jet lagged out of your brain??
ReplyDeleteWELCOME BACK TO THE USA...i feel your pain for the bills. Glad you all are doing well. We will be patient for pics, i truly get your jet lag. lol.
ReplyDeleteI love the P.S. Hilarious...! Happy Holidays you guys! Stay warm...
ReplyDeleteWELCOME HOME! So excited for you guys. Can't wait to hear all about your trip and Emily.
ReplyDeleteSuch great news. We're so happy for you guys and encouraged but such a great story.
ReplyDeleteI loved the last comment. Hilarious! Bring on some solo pics of Emily! We'll take you later! Happy holidays.
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